Encourage effort, growth, and resilience — not just outcomes.
Let the car ride home be a safe, pressure-free space.
It is often recommended that parents only say positive things to their children, such as "I love watching you play," allowing for space to build resilience.
Respect the Coaches
Coaches manage playing time, strategy, and development.
Avoid sideline coaching, signals, or instructions.
Questions or concerns should be addressed after the tournament, privately and respectfully. Please do not approach the coach about playing time until after 48 hours post tournament. https://jvavolleyball.org/updating-the-24-hour-rule-to-a-48-hour-rule-club-volleyball-policy/#:~:text=The%2024%2Dhour%20rule%20is,time%20or%20an%20athlete's%20role.
Model Sportsmanship
Be respectful to referees, opponents, and tournament staff.
No negative comments, gestures, or confrontations — in person or online.
Remember: you represent the club at all times.
Follow Club Travel Policies
Adhere to hotel and supervision rules.
Ensure athletes arrive on time and prepared.
Communicate promptly if travel plans change.
Keep Perspective
One tournament ≠ a player’s value or future.
Development includes tough matches, limited playing time, and learning moments.
The goal is long-term growth — physically, mentally, and as a teammate.
